W phoned me last night to say she was delayed at work as somone had a car accident, I told her to text me when she was on the way home, shich she did (I was out & friends for dinner).

I came home and we chatted for a while before she got in the bath, she asked me to make coffee and put the fire on downstairs while she was doing that.

When she came downstairs she sat next to me on the sofa (I was expecting her to sit by the fire) and we chatted nicely (no OR talk)for a while longer (about 1.5 hours in total) before going to bed in our respective rooms.

This morning as I went downstairs she said 'Morning, coffe please' in a light nice tone that she used to speak to me with, I made coffee and she asked me to roll her a cigarette, I did, she sat next to me again and we chatted for a bit, she said, just as an aside, that she didn't get any texts from anyone (her friends) last night and no one loves her (I didn't say anything :)even though I felt like saying, I do). She said she finishes at 18:00 so will see me later then went to work.

Seems positive so far but I am wary, my ultimate goal is for her to recommit to our relationship and marriage but I am meeting my current goals of spending more time together and talking about rubbish and her being at home a bit more & her sitting with me on the same sofa.

Not sure how to progress at the moment, my mum and little sister think that she is slowly coming back to me. She has certainly changes a bit over the last week.

Any advice on how it os going or what I need to do moving forward? I have improved myself a lot, lost weight got more toned, on AD's and I am good again \:\)

Advice still appreciated.

Cheers all and hope you are moving forward.

Gavin


Me: 30
W: 31
T: 9.5 yrs
M: 4 Yrs
No Kids, 1 cat
Had a bad year
Turmoil started 22/Jan/08
Seperated, same house 30/Jan/08
Wanted D: 2/Feb/08
Going downhill and towards D with nothing stopping her!