Thanks OD.

I've been thinking. What happened with you and your H - did you have a break of NC or reduced contact? And if so did you ever initiate contact with him?

I would love to suggest that H and I meet up and have a drink sometime, but would much prefer that he suggested it, so I didn't appear to be pursuing...

I so want to get to the bit where he is chasing after me, but tonight I really got that the first stage is reconnecting as friends. Its too early to play hard to get and mysterious - I think he just interprets that as me being upset.

H is doing the work on Friday, but I doubt that I will see him, unless he purposely stays late by a couple of hours (highly unlikely). I could text him after Friday to say thanks for doing a good job??? What do you think?? Too much?


Me - 29
H - 32
Married 7 years
Separated 09/07