Forrest Gump-you are correct I have told her I would do anything, sacrafice everything to have her back, our relationship better and our family stay together. Honestly, I thought what she said was postpartum depression was just her being sick all the time. She has been constantly sick since the baby was born-colds, broncitus (sp.) and other viruses, illness. I attempted to get her to go to the doctor more often but she always got mad when I mentioned it. She is now going and the doctor is trying to get the thyroid straightened out. I can tell she feels better, she talks with me more about everyday things..small talk mostly..she does things that make me feel everything will be OK, then she does things to make me think that the papers will be served just anyday..I am letting her lead me..I know she is showing me the way as you said.. She says she has fallenm out of love with me and does not like who she is or what she has become....Anyway, I have changed a lot...I don't argue with her, I listen to her..she always has problems with her mother guilting her, so now instead of me getting mad at her mother when her mother guilts her, I've just started listening to my wife, telling her I'm sorry her mother does that to her and that her mothers guilt trips should not ruin my wifes day or what she is doing. Thanks for both the responses. I hear what both of you are saying and I appreciate the comments.
