Good boundaries ... you know what, a lot of this hinges on getting LW out of his life. I happen to agree with you. I would need her gone too. But you can only ask, not force ...
what did your H say to this?
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.