Met hubby for a brief shopping trip today. Made a big effort to be effortless (hah!) and witty. When I dropped him off we kissed, per the norm, and I swear as I pulled away he was going back for another one. At the very least I was the one pulling away first. God, this is so like dating again where you notice every little good and bad thing! Text flirted a bit today, too.
I really think my DBing is going well. I predict a breakthrough (I think it will be physical to some extent) followed by a pull-back. Something good in the next four or five days and a confirm on the concert, then a freak-out on his end and he'll cancel the concert and head to Southern California early. I'm very thankful for this site laying out the pattern so should we get to better times I know to expect some reversals. This is, of course, IF we get better times...
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09