JayScott,

I dont know what advice i can give and i too look on here for guidance or just a soft spot. i've posed and gone withoug replies.

what is your sitch, i'll take a stab at it if you like...

Me 40 H 30
D19 previous marriage, d3 and s10months
H walked out nov 1, 2009
Seperated ever since
filed for d nov 2010, served h 12-22-10