(((((Emily))))) I think sg has some good ideas, but I think I prefer the idea of following through with the divorce, and the letting him start from scratch, if that is what he wants better. I am just afraid, based on the past, that if you do anything less than finish the job you will be right back in the same spot again. Unless you really believe that you can do exactly what sg has suggested. But, I think you have already given him that chance. He said he didn't want a divorce, and then went to Cassie. What's that say to you?