Just got back in town and thought I'd check in on you. How's it going?
I know your W seems suddenly different. Bizarre, but it happens. My W doesn't care about the last 12 of our life. Yet she wants the things we used to do together, go figure. Of course, she's involved with OM, which is the complication.
Listen, you need to understand the same thing I'm trying to accept - this isn't about her anymore, it's about you. There were problems in the M that escalated and reached a breaking point. Should they have broken? Don't you deserve a partner who will work to make the R function? If so, will your W do that?
It's a hard reality to confront, but that's the position both you and I are in. If you have any great insights, let me know. I'm just doing my best to survive. Unfortunately, at this point that means giving up on W.
