Unfortunately, we've been told we're only allowed to give advice if it's to say "STAY in the marriage," so I really don't know what to tell you.
Puppy
Not exactly true. If YOU decide to leave ... we support you....we do not want you to be miserable.
Certainly not your fault....but you've set a consequence for him (divorce) and then retrieved it. Understandable .... many of us have done that...including me, and then WE pay the price for it.....so that's not fair, huh?
What would it take for you to give him another chance? What kind of behaviors....if you could 'train him' would make it worth it?
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
