wow dan, I don't think you did a thing wrong. Not a thing. You are drawing your lines. She is really out of control (don't worry, I have a H like your W, had OW, then kissed another woman, now is supposedly seeing a new OW). You are doing all you can to be respectful and kind to your W. She is so foggy she doesn't see the horribly disrespectful things she is doing (calling you from OM's phone, the groceries). I am sorry. If you are ready, you might ask her to move out.
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She asked whether the kids asked for her. They didn't and that's the truth. I suppose they're so used to their mom not being around.
My kids rarely ask for H when he isn't around. They are used to him coming and going. You and I are the consistent ones. We need to keep that up, the kids need us to be rocks.
