Oh RTL.. she has been putting you through the wringer as of late. I am so sorry to hear this... and I'm sure she is but a shadow (if that) of the person that you married. Someone must be in deep, deep, deep emotional or mental distress to treat someone they formerly loved and their innocent child the way your wife is treating you and your daughter. I'm glad that everything went well with the evaluator.. Seems like he is a seasoned pro so I imagine he's seen a lot of this horrible behaviour before.
I'm glad your wife is contacting you about seeing your D on Thursday and Friday.. that will be a nice way to end off your Spring Break week. But as you mentioned keep yourself braced for her next offensive tackle!