I will definately give this a shot for awhile and see where we go. I really think speding time and showing him some affections is what he needs from me. he talks alot about not wanting any more distance and wanting to hang out with me more
If your H has complained in the past about you 'neglecting' him or not showing him affection, then I totally agree with you trying this. It would be a 180 for you!! I know my H has calmed down SO much ever since I started listening, really listening to him. He was craving this from me.
You have to draw your own boundaries with H if you feel he is cake eating. Only you will know when too much is too much. I didn't know til it happened to me.
