Grace I dont know how they block it out what they dont want to know or hear somehow maybe they deny its true like H said the other day he felt controlled in M and he lost himself so he can justify at least for the moment the hurt he caused b/c he felt controlled / and lost and that was my fault so he thinks my H also comes from a D family I never even met/spoke with his dad His mom had several bF after D and took all the kids to another state I never really knew what happened with his parents But his mother was very critical and contolling and H definitely has issues with women and I dont think he trusts men either peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow