Originally Posted By: Kalni
I am so glad you get a push from all of us here to the right direction. You like to put things off but you can't put off your life Jeff. You are clearly a smart man, you have got yourself trapped in a situation and you need to do something about it. Solutions don't just appear. COMMUNICATION is definitely a problem. Solve it. At least as far as you are concerned. She may be surpsrised and not follow. Give her some time and be consistent, keep the lines open. She will. "Reaction rarely gets us anywhere, action usually does".

K


((((((Kalni))))))
Thank you!
Yes, I can put things off pretty well, I am good at that! I let this happen, day-by-day, month-by-month, year-by-year, and now it is pretty intimidating. Communication is a huge problem. It is like one of us is speaking Greek, even when we try to communicate! Any suggestions on how to start?

Have I mentioned that you are one smart lady?