You are assuming, you don't know. Ask her what her Ideal H would be. You might be pleasantly surprised, you might be slam dunked and know that there is no reason to 'try' anymore. While you're talking remember to have the conversation about your biopsy too.
What I am saying Jeff, start communicating your needs. Start small, like a ride to the hospital please and thank you. If you haven't talked in years how does she know what YOU want? Is she as frustrated as you?
(((((WCW))))) You are correct, I am assuming. Though it is hard to imagine that she thinks I am the cat's pajamas right now! I think that I will ask her about what she would like in a H when I ask her what she thinks we can do to improve things.
As far as the biopsy goes, she mentioned it again Sunday, again suggesting a postponement. So, I know about where I stand there. I will be talking to S18, and go from there. I don't really want her along, at this point.
I'm sure she is frustrated. She doesn't think I listen to anything she says. At this point, she might be right. I have a hard time caring any more. Which is kind of discouraging, coming from me! I need to get myself right, and see where that leads, I think.
