Thanks HFF,
Ya my first W became a drug addict. I did not even know it and she left me with two babies. The Catholic Church would not let me get married there unless I paid a fee to get my marriage an auld. .What??? So it's only a sin if I don't pay a fee??
So that and 8 years of catholic school kind of turned me off of the church "of man". I figure God knows me and I do talk to him often. I don't need any "man made" building to worship in. Now My W is not religious at all. I am not saying I will not go because of the religious aspect of it. I really do want to go. I NEED to go. It's just I know my W will be reluctant. But she will really have no choice. I have done so much over the last year for her. IF she wants me to keep her "secret" (which I do think she is not proud of). Then WE need to go. AFTER she gets her job so her mind will be open...

I am back because W just got on my case for trying to do too much right now. I do feel allot better. Just can't bend over right now. Sitting is fine....

Later
Husband (Dr LOVe)


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know