Joie,

Did showing your H more affection work for you??? This is totally a personal question and dont feel like you have to answer me I would understand..but I'm wondering when your H was still seeing OW and living at home did you guys still sleep in the same bed or did he move to the couch? I'm not comfortable allowing my H to lay next to me right now but he says he wont stay at the house if he has to sleep on the couch. He's not being mean about he just says he wont stay the night here until he is welcome back in his own bed. I really have mixed feeling about this.

H has sounded different since our talk on sunday. More upbeat when we talk, engages in converstation more and has been calling more. H talked to my best friend yesterday and made it sound like he is really trying to break things off with OW. Only problem he has tried before and failed. I guess time will tell. WEll should see him this weekend and i'm looking forward to trying something new, hanging out and hopefully having fun together and laughing again!