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Are these baby steps.

YES.

Keep the talk light and easy. No R talk. If she does, change the subject or go to the bathroom. Have a strategy for if/when she turns on you unexpectedly. Do not hang around or smother her because things seem to be going well. Just play......it.......cool.

And DO NOT bring up anything about the past or the future. Live in the present moment only.

If you can get through one evening, that is a big step. Focus on that for now.

You CAN do it.


Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!