the kids didn't cry, nothing. I have talked to our son and will talk to our D8 tonight. I am so devastated.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
Oh Luv, I am so very sorry for you and your kids. The hurt will be hard, so hard, but you are a different person now. You will know to take care of yourself and your kids. I am so sorry!!! I wonder what happened...
He displays SUCH immature behavior! I'm sorry he did that to you and the kids. The important thing is for you to be the adult in the situation and protect the kids from his craziness.
It's me... Husband, boy last time I looked you were sooooo Happy. I know this is anti DBing but if this guy could not even wait until you got home to say good bye.. there is something wrong with him. The first thing in Dbing is you need RESPECT. and he does not seem to have that for you. I would not pursue.. I would start looking at protecting your self and the kids. You don't have to file but I would still look onto what are you options.
Hugs girl ya have my E-mail if ya need to vent..no wait... If I was able to give ya my e-mail you could e-mail me to vent. or if you looked into my profile before I was violated... you may have already gotten it...
later Husband (DrLOve)
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Luv, I am so sorry..I just read the entire thread and was so happy that he came home and things were looking up. I think leaving the way he did was very cowardly. How could he not say goodbye to his family in a proper way? Sounds like there's more to it than just cold feet.My H is back home saying that his R is over for good with the OW and I too should be happy but so scared that a few days from now it can all change again.Please stay strong and show him that you won't crumble over his stupidity.
Me: 36 H: 34 2 D's: 10+13 Married: 13 yrs(Together 15) Found out about A-Jan 08 Finally ended April 08..I hope?? Struggling to co-exist in peace
Hi everyone, I want to file. I just do not want to do this anymore. He is living a lifestyle that I just do not want. I do not think it's right that he keeps jerking me or his kids around like this. Especially our kids. It's just not fair to the kids to keep them on this rollercoaster. They deserve to have some stability. My D8 sat in the corner of her room crying that she didn't have a dadddy and that her daddy didn't love her anymore. Just broke my heart. I told her that she did have a daddy and that her daddy did love her. In side myself I was think my H is such a stupid jackass and that I would love to smack the crap out of him.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
In side myself I was think my H is such a stupid jackass and that I would love to smack the crap out of him.
Oh Luv- I'm sorry too. If I can respond to your above quote. I'd love to help you on that one. I've been let down a lot by my H, but for yours to come home with the hope of working things out and then to just leave in such a cowardly fashion....is just....what can I say.....WRONG.
Sweetie, you have changed so much and are such a strong person. I can't imagine the hurt you had not only to see him gone, but to see your children hurt. I know we can't take away the pain, but trust me, in a way, we're feeling it for you too. I had tears in my eyes when he came back and I started crying again when I read that he left.
I'm sending you the biggest, strongest hug possible from MN. I hope you feel it.
SueS
Last edited by SueS; 03/26/0803:23 PM.
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
Luv, so sorry that you are going through this. And I feel so sorry for your poor D8! I don't understand sometimes how the WAS can live with themselves and what they have done! Hugs from me also!!! Karen
