Fish,
Please reconsider the dinner. I know you're "just friends", but my friend, you are playing with fire. Especially since there's "chemistry" between the two of you. This will backfire BIG TIME when your wife finds out, and trust me, she'll find out.

There are pleny of other little fishies in the sea, leaves wife's friends ALONE!!

Think about the message you want to send to your wife now. That you are moving on?

Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."