just figures he'll have to pay you more if you divorce him
That's my guess. It is all to do with him, nothing to do with you, Emily. Every time tings get to this point, he says something, and draws you back in, but he has never done a thing to back it up. What is this, the fourth time, at least, I think. If he means it, let him show it, after you are divorced from his drama, and him!