A few more items I forgot to mention which may be pertinent..When my wife had our daughter, she had complications from the surgery, her C-section scar took 11 weeks to heal, her thyroid got out of whack, she told me at Christmas that she suffered from postpartum depression but did not tell me until 20 months after my daughter was born and I had no idea...she acted the same as she always did. She gained a lot of weight during the pregnancy and has been unable to lose it. I know this bothers her. She's on Prozac now and being treated for Hypothyroidism..I feel all this is connected..her health, my communication skills, issues we have faced during our marriage, lack of money, her mother....it's all wrapped up...I feel like our marriage can be saved...it's going to take a lot of work on my part. I know I contributed to getting us here by my actions and inactions.
