Well, my last thread finally locked, so here is the continuing saga...
My H for the last five days has worked his regular shift, and then had to go back on from 10 at night till 3 am, to do surveillance to catch car thieves, and he has a hard time keeping awake, so I call him on his cell and talk for a long time with him to keep him occupied.
Well, we got deep into R talk the other night, and I asked him some questions. I told him I knew he still had the other cell phone, that I had seen it. He said he had "intended" to give it to a "certain" person to use but someone had been calling it and not identifying their number or leaving a message, or as he said harassing the phone. And he said that now the contract is almost up on it, and he is going to let it expire, I told him I wanted to see the phone, and he said he will let me see it when it is turned off. I asked him if it would be replaced with another one. He got pi**ed at me for asking that.
And he said the jewelry purchase was for me (yeah, right), but that he had not realized that I had a heart necklace like it already, and so had returned it. Well, wouldn't he have needed a receipt to return it? It didn't show up on the receipt that I have that there was any return.
I don't know if we actually got anything accomplished, other than to bring my knowledge out into the open, and took away some more of the titillating secrecy from this emotional affair.
Does anyone know how long these things usually run?
If his contract on the secret cell phone is really about to run out, then he, I am guessing, got it about two years ago, and how long before that did they start messing around or whatever? So, I am thinking it is close to three years now.
Surely with it so in the open, part of the fun of hiding from L is gone.
Unless they are clinging to each other like drowning rats from a sinking ship, and neither will let go first.
Could that momentum keep them on this course for the next three or four years???
Dang mlc roller coaster, it's a bunch of bullcrap.
Do I still have hope??
I mean, he says he is going to be with me for the rest of his life.
