Ping, you probably are getting tired of hearing from me so much, but I don't think you should do the dark thing at this time. For one, your kids, and second....don't think the timing is right and you said you two are still talking, and third....I just don't think you are emotionally ready to go dark.
That is just my take on it. Someone else can chime in.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
