My response was brief because I didn't want to make assumptions about your response to me. It is difficult to communicate through this medium at the risk of our words being misunderstood.
If you were to ask your wife if she understood the sitch she may tell you that she knows exactly what she is doing and thinking, but I can tell you she doesn't especially with having had an EA. Having an EA can make the most perfect of marriages seem like war of the roses. I just had a conversation with a friend last night in which I described the past 1.5 yrs as a nightmare in which I was snatched by aliens and if you had told me just 2yrs ago I would be in my sitch or that I would ever sep. from my H I would have said your crazy. I don't fully understand my mindset during the period of sep. I really did one day just wake up. Your wife may do the same and she may not. I pray for the sake of, if nothing else your children, she does.
All the best!
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