Mixed Signals - version ? who's counting

[sandycay]

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The biggest thing we can do for ourselves is "not making whole cookies from crumbs" as a good friend of mine likes to remind me.

So the best thing I can tell you is be strong and don't make crumbs out to be cookies.

What do you mean by this? I have stopped him from coming over every day now. I was doing it in the beginning so he could see the kids and of course so I could see him. CAKE EATING. I asked for the keys to the house last week. (after OW was in town & he hid it from me) I have since gathered all his clothes from the bedroom and given it to him. He only took a suitcase when he left. That suprised him by the way, but just said Thank YOu. I haven't packed all his other stuff (Air Force sTuff, stuff from him mom, and all that junk) should I wait till he ask for it, or give him all of his stuff and stop being the storage unit?

So sorry to hear about your former co-worker.

I often pray that mine doesn't pass away while our relationship is in the tormoil. I can't imagine spending the rest of my life without this resolved.