I can share generalized personal experience as well as specific. For me, working on myself is the only thing that make sense. Working directly on the R is nearly impossible. So, for me, hearing generalized experience is just as important as specific experience. Sometime, a quick brief on what it looked like to work on yourself would probably help me.

If you don't mind, please drop by my thread and put a little input on that.


H - 47
W - 44
M - 18+ years
Separated? - 4/07
S - 13
S - 15