I can share generalized personal experience as well as specific. For me, working on myself is the only thing that make sense. Working directly on the R is nearly impossible. So, for me, hearing generalized experience is just as important as specific experience. Sometime, a quick brief on what it looked like to work on yourself would probably help me.
If you don't mind, please drop by my thread and put a little input on that.
H - 47 W - 44 M - 18+ years Separated? - 4/07 S - 13 S - 15