Well, W got the preliminary papers for D today. She was showing me them. I guess she wants me to say we have S for 2 years..(we have only been S for 16 months)..I guess so its cheaper and faster. Im okay though. Felt good and I was calm.
W also informed me that OM is soon to move in. Well, knew it was going to happen sooner or later. I just cant understand how she thinks this guy is right for her. They have only been up each others asses for 3 weeks now. Go on a date, then never go a day without seeing each other since...and now she ready to file and move OM in..
Some things are just too weird for me...I couldnt basically move some girl in after only three weeks of dating them, let alone move him in with three kids..
Oh well, my kids seem to be safe with him..thats what important.
God Bless
Chevelle
Chevelle,
It sounds like you are doing well all things considered.... I think you need to focus on the children and GALing.... Things will work out and you will feel like you are back to "normal" someday.....
I would just see this an opportunity to step back, work on your R with God, work on yourself and think about what YOU really want out of life....
I would also think about what you're looking for in a future mate... It is REALLY wild..... God totally sent a woman who met all of my needs.... and my wants..... He is so faithful!
No_More_Dodo
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
