It makes things soooooooooooo much easier on me!!

Think about it.....I do not have to walk on thos DAMN eggshells when I talk to him. It's time for him to "man up". He wanted the divorce, he's got it. Now I have the ability to stand up for myself and not worry if it's going to affect him coming home or not. YIPPEE!

How ridiculous is it when you have to "gear" up mentally to call your H or xH in regards to your home??????

You guys have no idea the mind games this man plays. Good thing I kept his emails and texts \:\) I feel sorry for FABS! Poor things is going where no person should ever go....he's not mentally stable. Even Elaine...the cranky secretary who never ever says things...said to send her a sympathy card

How did I find out?

His Aunt goes to my hairdresser....she is also my x cousin in law. If ya'll remember, 3 of his cousins wife's divorced them. I was the last to divorce of 4.

His Aunt was in the salon talking about the lovely wedding. She doesn't know that I've been going there for over 2 years. I talk to Aimee alot in regards to the marriage the divorce and have shown her his emails...she finally told me Friday....she said "Jeanette....I love you to death! Your a wonderful person and it hurts me to see what your still doing...I've struggled in telling you something all day, but I think I should as your hurting over something.....Rich was married several months ago".

What am I to do? Nothing. \:\)

It truly simplifies so much. Things are easier now. I am ok.

Now I can really GAL and DBUST! Without worrying about it backfiring on me.

It's very liberating to say the least.

All is good.

Hehehe.....his job doesn't even know! I think he's embarrased of her. Hmmm...

Change the Policy.
Allow PM's
Free all of us.

Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!

:-)