Well, 3 things. WB, sorry you are still here. One piece of advice, I'm glad you guys had a good month, but don't stop posting because things seem good.
Second, post the draft letter to her dad here for edits/advice. People on this BB are great with stuff like that. Apologize for interfering in their relationship, causing problems. Things you can genuinely apologize for.
Third, her moving out is time to work on yourself, and time for her to miss you. Don't get involved with her family drama, be the calm and stable person she can call when they are driving her nuts! And furthermore, remember, nothing you say to her family (especially her dad) will help it will only cause drama/pain for her. So, be the bigger person, vent to us, and don't cause her pain - she will appreciate it in the future when she comes out of the fog.
Great advice, thanks! I'm so glad I have a place like this to come to, and I won't stop coming again.
Last edited by jon2911; 03/25/0807:15 PM.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
