I agree...defo...email him. Thats not invasive or in your face.. its in his inbox and he can choose to open and read it when he is ready. Just like a letter. In fact, better than a letter, as once you open an envelope..then you've seen the contents and its in front of you. An email is the least pressured way of contacting him, if thats your main concern. Its lighthearted, informal, simple.

Now you've got to work out what to say in it !!!


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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