Waiting and wondering is hard. How long is OW supposed to be in town?
Good job on the running. I haven't been since I got sick about two weeks ago...but I am starting back today and I dread it It is hard to get back into after missing for a while. Glad I don't have to be timed on it!!
No clue. I assume her spring break goes all this week (including weekends) but she eats up a day on either end with travel time, plus more on the end actually because of the time difference. Not sure how much she's spending with her parents and how much with her "sister" (I'm assuming that's her excuse for visiting the college town where her sister and H live).
Lol. Looking back over what I just wrote, it's mostly assumptions. I'm assuming the UK also does a one week spring break, I'm assuming her parents aren't okay with her visiting her adulterer, I'm assuming she's also visiting her parents.
*sighs* I wish I was a fly on the wall sometimes!
GL on the running klm. It does suck getting back to it, but at least you only have a few weeks off. It's also nice that you can ease back into it.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
1. Reducing negative emotions LRT (if needed) ACT as IF Avoid Cheeseless Tunnels
2. Reestablishing a relationship (friendship) Real Giving Communication skills (Change Anything, The medium is the message, better done than said...etc)
3. Realignment of romance If it Works, Don't Fix it Change Anything Do a 180
4. Recommitment Keeping the Changes Going
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Keep your chin up Michelle, you are doing a great job.
How does that song go? "The Waiting is the Hardest Part?"
Hope you had a Happy Easter and I appreciate all of your help on my thread.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
The waiting is the hardest part Every day you see one more card You take it on faith, you take it to the heart The waiting is the hardest part
Don't let it kill you baby, don't let it get to you Don't let em kill you baby, don't let em get to you I'll be your breathin' heart, I'll be your cryin' fool Don't let this go to far, don't let it get to you
I'm up to 2 ideas for the name of my next thread lol. The waiting is the hardest part....and Club Clueless!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
I was just thinking the same thing... sorry Michelle, but I have got a month off. If its undergrad, its usually 4 weeks, I guess if its postgrad it would be too, as all universities shut for a month over Easter. I am off 14 March - 14 April. Its better you know this though, as you can prepare to maybe wait another week or so before you hear from him? No wonder he was dreading it....
Shes no match for you! Shes Trouble with a capital T. Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Ah. Well, she's undergrad in Manchester. So, 4 weeks off it probably is. *sighs* That does explain some of my confusion over why she would be traveling between her parents' house (about 7 hours drive) and her sister's place near H. I guess she does actually have time to do both.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Yes, 4 weeks is the usual (unless she's studying for a doctorate, in which case the break would be shorter). In a way this could work to your advantage- if H has to spend more time with her over the break, he's more likely to get fed up of her.
She is totally no match for you. She's in an adulterous affair. That in itself shows what kind of a person she is.
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.
It is hard to get back into after missing for a while. Glad I don't have to be timed on it!!
