Please help...need MLC advice

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Got a call from my Lawyer today. Wants to meet tomorrow. Wants to know where to go from here. Everything's gone very slowly so far, but Judge will probably set a court date for the end of summer. Need to get all the info. we can. I feel physically sick.

Question: At Temporary Orders Hearing on March 12, H agreed in front of both lawyers to go to counseling---for the kids, but with me, too. Of course, he probably only agreed to not look like a putz in front of the lawyers.

I didn't do anything about it yet because last week was Spring Break busy, and because I'm not sure how to proceed. Should I just set up an appointment and tell him about it? Should I ask who he wants to use? I was seeing a psychiatrist, and D14 and S9 were seeing a child and family psychologist (who was the one who recommended the DR book to me) back in the fall, but should we start from scratch now that H will be involved? D14 and S9 are really struggling right now and need to go to counseling, with him or without him.

Also, at the hearing we agreed to put the house on the market. I don't want to, but there's no way I'll be able to afford this house on my own, so have no choice. H sent me a text last week asking if I had contacted the realtor yet. I truly cannot remember if I said in the meeting that I would do that. Should I? Or should I leave that ball in his court?

Gah!! I think I'm having anxiety attacks.