You know how kids will tell their parents to butt out of their lives because they are grown...the parents then respond with if you are grown then you can pay for rent, car, gas, etc. That is exactly how I feel with H.
He wants to be independent but only on the fun things. He wants help with the responsibility aspect of being an adult.
I have to quit running to his rescue. I know I have to do it (I have said that since day one)...I am just not sure HOW to do it.
