If only I had a clone ....Never mind - that's just too plain creepy!

Originally Posted By: MichelleLT
He would pull this passive aggressive BS where if he mentioned something and I didn't get all excited and ask if I could go he would assume I wasn't interested or was busy with more important things.


Bingo! I get the same feeling from my H. I'm not jumping for joy at the opportunity to do something with him, and I believe he takes it personally. For as long as I can remember, it's always been this way. It's not like I don't want to be with him or anything - far from it - but if I'm not all over him so to speak, he feels like I don't love him. That's so not true!

What to do, what to do?!!!

My family and my H are both equally important to me. Sometimes I feel like he wants me to choose, and I don't want to do that. I shouldn't have to feel that way. Too many times before we S'ed, I missed out on a TON of family events because H didn't want to go. H's family isn't close at all like mine is (with the exception of MIL and SIL). They're nice to be around, very courteous people, but oftentimes things feel 'fake' around them.

Anyway.

Thanks, ladies! I think I'll talk to him...again ....about Friday, see how he feels and what he thinks. I think if he does plan on going out with the guys after the game, then I'm going to my sister's party. There's always the next game. \:\)

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell