I just meditated and I feel my message is to keep going to leave H behind and move on with life
Hi peace,
I can't remember what childhood issues your H has/may have that could have contributed to his MLC. In my case, I think that my H is really suffering from the effects of emotional abandonment by his father. Even though I have no idea how that must feel, I understand that H has suffered from this for a long time - I have a lot of sympathy for him. But what you said above is entirely correct - you can't allow what your H is going through to pull you down too. This is his mess to figure out and we can't help them - especially if they don't want our help. All we can do is not make it worse.
Keep on going so that you can be someone your H looks up to and sees as a source of strength and maybe even inspiration. It may help give him the courage he needs to face his own demons.
