no expectations 6

[peacetoday]

PH UD
THanks for your support
I will take your advice PH and keep acknoledging any good H does especially with the kids , as they told me, he followed through sticking with his boundry with the video time sunday

I called H this AM as I wanted to tell him of this large overdue bill that came to house
He seemed short at first then seemed nicer- and said it was paid.,,and we hung up

then I called L..Just wanted information especially about custody issues.. filing/ fees ect and procedures..she talked to me ..I liked her
I just want to be prepared..Im not filing yet
I decided to wait till August that will be 18 months and If I see no shift in H I am thinking -I may file then

then I noticed H called while I was in store
I decided to not call back
so he called again..I picked it up
he seemed normal..wanting to explain the bill to me further and then we wound up talking for about 30 minutes about business stuff
The conversation was positive and friendly
we connected
we have never been able to talk this way as we do nowm and this past year
He shares stuff about business b/c he knows I will validate his efforts and im never critical anymore

I told him my brother said the office was not in order as they are having trouble hiring a competent person
I know he doesnt want my help b/c he doesnt want me to see what hes been doing this year as if I dont know?
I just offered my help if he needed me to help with the bookkeeping and I could do it home
He declined but seemed apprciative that I would care or want to help
we hung up...

He seems as if he didnt hear me the other day..
everything is all friendly again
I dont know what to make of it all
I think he goes in denial
peace