Hello !

The last few weeks have been very interesting.

Rich was married several months ago to Fabiola \:\) They are now a very happy couple, who met in deceit, and shall prosper together. I couldn't be happier for them. Really.....I'm glad that part is over. I do feel sorry for her....I do wonder tho if she is aware of his uhm...sneakiness behind her back. Not my problem....he now officially belongs to her! And he said he would never get married again. Ha! 3 marriages in 16 years...he's on a roll.

I do wonder tho...why he would write to me in emails about moving back into the house, and going out....OH WELL, I guess those are just a part of life I will never understand. Not sure if I want to anymore. Oh....uhm, I think Teddie is at the house fixing the pump! Hehehe...FINALLY!

I did have an appt with my attorney today. In the best interest of things I have again emailed my xh in regards to the outside maintence on the house, keeping payments current and of course...leaving the lights and water on. GEEESH!

If he does not comply with my written requests, then my attorney will file a more formal request, if he does not comply with that...here comes the Judge. She didn't like the x very much to begin with. Smart woman ;\) She will most certaintly not be happy with his neglectful behavior.

As far as my home...well I do not have to sell it right now. You see....when the divorce agreement was signed, it was worth $120,000.00 more than it is right now. Therefore..there goes the figures behind the alimony! Damn shame huh? Oh...the X could give up his entire equity....if he wants the house sold so bad. Heck, his wife should push for this!! If not...he is still tied to me. Hmmm...it must be hard to live in my shadow

I'm truly sorry that it all came to this ridiculous lying, game playing and sheer ugliness. However, I'm glad it's over.

I have the law on my side. He's the one working outside of it.

I no longer have to walk on eggshells around him!!!! ;\)

I no longer have to worry what he's up to next.

She does.

No, this is not how I wished things would end. But who am I to wonder why God is leading me down a different path. It's time to embrace it and not be afraid.

Hugs!!

Jeanette


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