Jeff, maybe if you think of what you want in your wife, it will help you think about what she wants in her h. Have you changed over the years? If so, in what ways? Do you think what she wanted in a h has changed? Just some thoughts to get you going. Hope it helps. And dont think I have forgotten our project of cleaning up the bedroom. I am cutting you some slack because you are not feeling well and I know you are concerned. Once you get that clean bill of health, and I know you will, we are starting it up again.
In the meantime, try to take care of yourself. Eat right, get enough sleep and get some exercise. And really think about the possibility that you might be depressed. And who wouldnt be living as you are? I could tell you first hand that depression can cause physical illness. I know how hard it is for men to face the possibility of going to a therapist, but that might be just what you need. Doesnt make you weak - in fact, it is just the opposite - it takes a strong person to admit they might need a little help. Just some thoughts - I hope you dont mind.
