You are right... I have been focusing on working on my own issues, improving myself, practicing my new ways of being with others where the stakes are not so high, and figuring out how I contributed to the crisis myself. I have been DBing myself. But just myself.
I am afraid of his reaction. I still feel so much love for him. I am totally not over him! If I was I don't think I would be here. I am terrified to get out of my comfort zone. How do I do it without losing my S%^#?
