The salad was a nice gesture. I don't know aobut the "be careful ...or she'll be done too". It seems like we are always told to portray the message of moving on and getting a life so those two messages don't seem to fit.

I guess right now all we can be is good parents. You are doing better then me in the no talking department. My H is never brought up outside of the C but then, in C, things slip out of my mouth but my DD is a lot older then your kids (16 years). I don't run him down, just stuff like "I know he using an escort service". <sigh>

My H is still basically in no contact after 2 years. <sigh> I don't know which of our stitches is better.

Sitting quietly doing nothing, the flowers bloom effortlessly.

bomb: Jan 25, 2006
not seen since
DD moved in with H - 9/1/08
H filed for divorce - 11/2008
Divorce dismissed by courts - 4/2010
still nothing