Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Maybe "the person your H wants to be with" is something less, not something more.Puppy


You may be right, I can do less - although I'm pretty certain he wouldn't be to thrilled if i cut back on the cooking and cleaning, I think he likes having me get him things and pamper him.

I don't think I can be less, I cannot be less educated, less friendly, less caring, less loyal, less successful at work(unless I quit). And I think these may be the issues. And to be any less of any of these things may be a disservice to myself.

Again, just in a mood today, I will not be stopping or changing any of the efforts I am putting forward.

Quote:
Oh you wouldn't know a diamond,
If you held it in your hand . . .
-- Steely Dan


This just made me teary at work!


Me~34
H~38
D6.5

EA/PA-DEC.07

Moved out~Apr.13,08
Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08
No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009