Maybe "the person your H wants to be with" is something less, not something more.Puppy
You may be right, I can do less - although I'm pretty certain he wouldn't be to thrilled if i cut back on the cooking and cleaning, I think he likes having me get him things and pamper him.
I don't think I can be less, I cannot be less educated, less friendly, less caring, less loyal, less successful at work(unless I quit). And I think these may be the issues. And to be any less of any of these things may be a disservice to myself.
Again, just in a mood today, I will not be stopping or changing any of the efforts I am putting forward.
Quote:
Oh you wouldn't know a diamond, If you held it in your hand . . . -- Steely Dan
This just made me teary at work!
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009