Thanks. My hope is that my W considers my feelings and thinks hard about why she's unhappy. I think she'll find she is feeling unhappy in general and not particularly just because of our M. What she told me a while back is that OM makes her feel happy, but I know that won't last forever. When we were falling in love I used to make her happy... I want her to realize that what she is doing isn't the answer, but for that to happen she needs to keep doing it until that realization hits.
I know from our recent conversations that she is more unhappy now than most other points in her life. If her goal is to find happiness then why is she so miserable? When will she see the light that what she's doing isn't making her happy? She's leaving a great guy (me), burning bridges with her family (who she cares for deeply), and causing herself terrible pain in the process. There has to be a point where she snaps back to reality and hopefully decides to work on things with me when that happens. From what I can tell she has been sad most of the time recently, but she would cheer up when she saw me. She also heads off to see OM almost every weekend to get an escape from reality. Doesn't she see that he is a major cause of her current unhappy situation?
Too many questions and not enough answers.
It's been 2 days since I've had any contact with W now. I'm tempted to break the silence, but I know I should wait much longer before making contact. I don't want to go completely dark, just see her less. She has mail at the house and I'm sure she'll be dropping in anytime to pick it up. Tuesdays (today) have been our usual "date nights" recently so tonight will be a little sad for me.
