Then go with your gut feeling. My REAL concern is her behavior in front of the children mako. I am in this same thing too and you must, at all costs, cut this off at the pass. In retrospect, the single most destructive thing in my M over the last 2 years was my W screaming at the top of her lungs either with the kids in the car, in the house or in front of them. Avoid this at ALL COSTS...WHATEVER the costs....even if you have to step outside.
My W did this after filing....screaming. After she wouldn't lower her tone, I told her that the conversation would end if she didn't bring the volume down while the kids were in the house. She didn't...I got my coat and told her I was going for a walk.
Originally Posted By: Hold Onto Your N.U.T.S.
If your W starts hitting below the belt, the conversation is over.
BTW..my IC concurs: "People don't change".
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
