Thank you bookpusher. Trying as best I can. I am simply now trying to be a great dad...not say anything to the kids that comes across in the LEAST or, could be misconstrued, as going against mom...thinking thrice before saying anything or texting to her. There will be no further R talk.

I know that some people would say "be careful or you'll give your W a message that you are done and then she'll be done too". That's old stuff and that's OK. When the destruction is this bad...and the trust SO far gone...then if they CAN'T do the work to get the M back, WE..the LBS...should think very carefully about what conditions we would 'go back to the beginning'.

Last night, I left my office around 6 and didn't leave the hospital until about 12:30AM. For the first time in awhile, I got hammered in the ER. When I got home, there was a salad made for me.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;