I'm with you on the religious part of Retro. This is definitely something my H was uncomfortable with, I could tell, though he was trying not to be. About a month or so ago I mentioned Retro to him and told him I thought it was a good idea, that I just wanted to put it out there but not for right now. He said, "OK, we know there's the catholic option." I countered, "I like to think of it as the affordable option."
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09