But I'll consider your suggestion about doling out advice to leave and not give it. I'll choose not to post instead. Maybe it would be best not to post at all, since I really NEVER know whether it's good advice or not. I've certainly never written to someone that saved their marriage.
Um. Yes you have.
If you stop posting it'd be a tremendous loss to this site.
With just a few words you showed me a perspective I could not see on my own from the depths I was in at the time.
It may have been hope that I was looking for when I first posted on the newcomer's board, but that is not what I needed. I needed to face reality. I'm sorry if I never thanked you for that.
You rock, JM, and I only wish I could find a way to reach people the way you do.
