H does thank me and I don't have an ulterior motive when I help him. ...Well, maybe I did at first, I think at first I was willing to do anything to get him to move here and away from OW. I have just started wondering if I am making things too easy for him. At this point I don't know why he would want things to change.
Ok...venting here: His cell phone is in OW's name...which drives me insane. His bill is double mine. It is in her name because we used to have cingular...his last bill with them was over $500! This was because he was talking to OW so much...so he didn't pay it, canceled his service ($175 termination fee), and got a phone with sprint (which is what OW has...that way they had M2M minutes). Because he didn't pay his cingular bill he couldn't even qualify for the cell phone so OW put it in her name. I refuse to pay anything on that bill...but I guess he is able to pay it since I am helping with other things.
Sara, I'll let you know if I figure out what to do about this...but I don't imagine I'll have it figured out anytime soon.