I agree, no one can tell you when you're marriage is over, primarily because the LBS wouldn't listen anyway. We all arrive at the conclusion that our marriage is over at our own pace. As we probably all have learned, people will do what they feel is best for them and you really can't make anyone do anything.
But I'll consider your suggestion about doling out advice to leave and not give it. I'll choose not to post instead. Maybe it would be best not to post at all, since I really NEVER know whether it's good advice or not. I've certainly never written to someone that saved their marriage.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
