Neecy,

Maybe you did TOO much. Maybe "the person your H wants to be with" is something less, not something more.

Oh you wouldn't know a diamond,
If you held it in your hand . . .
-- Steely Dan

Don't it always seem to go
That you don't know what you got, 'til it's gone
-- Joni Mitchell

Just something to noodle.

Puppy